Beautiful Mess Mamas

1. Financial Resources
   • Figured I would start with one of the biggest stressors when it comes to a diagnosis such as autism, financial. The therapies, sensory toys, tools to help with speech or other developmental needs, it all adds up quick. A simple Google search should reveal local, state wide, and nationally recognized grants and financial assistance. Autism Speaks is a great resources for grants. While it may take time to get the necessary paperwork together, it is worth it to help with the mounting costs that can arise.
2. Informational Resources
   • This is a broad topic and it is kind of a “pick your poison” kind of situation. I love research and tend to lean towards the scientific or article based way of learning. Where as someone else might relate to YouTube, Podcasts, books. Whatever you prefer, knowledge is power. Highly encourage you to invest in at least one of these forms of information to learn, grow, and find what works for you and your child.
3. Support System
   • Whether it be family, friends, local support, or a Facebook group, FIND YOUR PEOPLE! We are fortunate enough that our friends and family truly make an effort to learn and respect our choices for our children. I am beyond grateful and realize how fortunate we are to have the support system we do. We also found support through a local group that offers adaptive sports which has been a blessing. There are also many great Facebook groups you can join to find support. (hint hint…. I may have created one as well….. you should check it out….) https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1ACJJjjQFf/
4. Therapies
   • An often controversial topic, therapies. There is no one size fits all. When your child receives their diagnosis, ask them what therapies they recommend for your child. Then research those therapies. The local facilities and providers that are available. Take the time to find the right fit for you and your child/children. The right provider and therapy can make a huge difference for your child. So taking the time to find that right fit is important. Some therapies are Developmental, Speech, Occupational, Physical, ABA, and when necessary medications.
5. Autism Tools
   • Depending on your child’s specific needs , will determine what daily toys, tools, and resources you will need. It is honestly a trial basis to find what your child likes and what brings them comfort. Check out my “Autism Mom Starter Pack” for our favorite items. My children are polar opposites, one sensory seeking and one sensory avoidant. So the items listed in that article https://alyssiawalsh.blog/64-2/ are shared favorites of both kiddos.

This is a very broad look at these 5 topics. The biggest thing is to be patient, be flexible, and try to see things from your child’s point of view. If we hold tight to what we have envisioned for their future or how things should be, you will miss out on a really unique, special way of thinking. The moment you start working with them, learning from them, create a schedule and system with them, things will flow much easier. There will be hard days, days you question everything you are doing. But God made you their parent for a reason. You can do this!